According to Buddhism

the thing that matters is the unforgettable time. unforgettable moment with the other-one, unforgettable moment with yourself alone.

Being recognized by the lovable other-one
and being recognized by your lonely inner self-one. This is how you find a place, a place to seek and hide whenever you'll need to. and then you see that there's an eternity around you but you have found your glory blue place to rise and blossom. you always knew what this place should be like, you were always afraid that it won't happen but when it does, you begin to orient yourself. Because you become part of the infinity as long as you have the right coordinates to determine yourself.